There has been a great deal of talk this past few years about psychic abuse. Many people don't truly understand what this
is. Our medics have no idea and really believe that all these people are just plain crazy. Not true at all. We all have a
certain level of crazy or insane thinking in everyone of us but psychic abuse is not a part of that although it can surly
make you crazy if you do not understand it.
Especially Psychic possession.
Physic possession is when another person is constantly on your mind. This has happened to me many times and years ago I nearly
went nuts with it. In fact I signed myself into the North York General Hospitals Psychic ward for three days just to have
a doctor tell me I needed to be medicated. This doctor was terrified of the entire situation.
Why?
How can we correct a problem if we fear it?
Not possible.
Examples:
1.A few years ago a young girl came to me from Richmond Hill. She was shouting and screaming at people whom where not present.
This girl would have total spazz attacks, completely out of the blue. She would do horrid things to herself, like cut herself
up and risk her life, when these spazzes would occur.
One day she came to my home and had to use the bathroom. She was in there for over three hours. All we could here form the
bathroom was this child yelling and fighting at people whom were not present. She was terrified and it took quite a while
to get her to come out of the room to talk. Finally we got her to come into the living room and I asked her whom she was talking
to.
She explained that in her mind she was having arguments with her mother, father and aunt. These people did not like her personality
or attitude and were constantly on her case about it.
I asked her for her mothers phone number. I dialed the number to find that the three {mother, father, aunt} were having a
visit and were discussing this girls problems. Immediately I began to work with this child, helping her to understand telepathy.
She understood very quickly and was able to stop the conversations and arguments with the skills I taught her. She is now
a married woman, living in New Jersey, healthy, happy and not on any medications. She is also one of the best psychics I have
encountered.
2. A year ago I asked a person to help out with LoveCry. He was in agreement with that but wanted many changes to the way
we were doing things that we did not agree with at all. He literally wanted to take over and run the show. This person did
not have the experience needed to do this so we opposed.
Here we talk about psychic abuse a great deal and this person was well educated in the subject. He did not care whom he hurt
to get what he wanted and he began to play head games with all of us. His goal was to have our situation here explode from
the inside. Some of us already knew how to protect ourselves but some were not so great at it yet so there was some damage
done. The point is that he was on all of our minds for several months. I spoke to him many times about it, as the kids and
I were getting very ill from his consistent psychic head games. He was a very good player.
Psychic abuse is one of the most dangerous abuses within our society today as it can not be see, herd or felt other then within
our minds and emotions. No visual or sound evidence of the abuse is shown. Many people are suffering from psychic abuse on
a daily basis and have no idea it is even happening. The rate of what seem to be normal people being charged with violent
offenses or being admitted to hospital, put on prescribed drugs or using more dangerous alternative drugs and alcohol has
risen phenomenally in the past decade.
Psychic abuse is one of the main reasons for these life horrors, and is most used in the art of sexual seduction and mind
control. Learn to protect your mind from this hideous abuse.
Very soon a new movie will be hitting our theaters. This movie has been taken from one of the most controversial book written
during the 90's entitled The Celestine Prophecies by James Redfield.
Below is a piece I believe everyone in our society needs to know about and learn to help get abuse in our families and communities
stopped. As long as we are being manipulated and manipulating we will be abusive as it is within our free will we find peace.
Vampires are not the blood-sucking fiends that we are lead to believe. These people actually suck your energy, not blood.
I am speaking about Energy Vampires.
These beings are capable of many different ways to steal our energy. The games may be out loud, which is done verbally, or
done silently, which is using their minds and thoughts to take.
One of the more common games used is the 'silent hate game' which is where a person pretends to like you and enjoy your company
when they truly do not. You know, the ones who kiss your ass to get what they want, while the silent judgments and wishes
stick deeply into your back..
Judging is another way they can steal your energy and place their horrible guilt, anger, sadness and pain onto you. These
beings are incapable of dealing with it themselves. Meaning they are weak willed and weak minded. They use pity games, " Oh
poor me! Everything bad happens to me!" Which make you feel sorry for them. They also use put-downs or destroy your dreams.
That is where they say, " Oh you can't do that! That can never happen!".
Most of them do not even know they are doing this to you and others. Don't be fooled! You are not the only one they drain.
Humans only have a small amount of energy, which can not sustain the vampire's greed for more. Therefore they go around and
suck everyone, even people walking down the street. Many of us have encountered people whom, we start to feel tired or lethargic
around. This is a tell-tale sign that these people are trying or stealing your energy. These vampires steal our energy because
they can not go about their day without it. Either they have none of their own or are just plain greedy.
They are addicted to human energy, but there are stronger and more fulfilling energies out there for them to obtain. There
are other ways to tell when you are being drained. Of course there is the tired feeling, this is where you almost fall asleep
on your feet. There is the judging, if you pay close attention to yourself, for every judgment there is a pain somewhere in
your body, mind, and spirit. Sometimes, we are the vampires, not the other. If you wish to see if you are a vampire, to be
sure to check your thought patterns, the way you speak to people, the way you act, and if you lie.
Lies are the biggest part of the vampire's game. If you believe the lies that they tell you it creates trust. Forming a bond
between you and the vampire. The back door way into your mind. Vampires need your trust in them to suck you dry otherwise
they are kind of just trying to get blood out of a rock.
There are different ways to defend yourself against such onslaughts. For each game there is a defense for it. For the pity
games, you be honest with them. Say something like, " I can not hear anymore of your self-pity trips. But, as your friend
I do care about your well-being but, I must come first." Honesty scares them, because deep down inside they start to feel
the guilt. Some get really angry with you and at that point walking away is the best choice. There are other ways to break
away, do not give them trust. This is where your intuition needs to come in and tell you the lies from the truths. Being positive
during these attacks works as well, but in order for it to work you MUST break the trust. Excusing yourself from the conversation
works. Shielding yourself, this is where you visualize a white veil of energy surrounding you moving in a clock-wise motion.
Binding and caging them works wonders. Binding is where you visualize the person and you wrap them three times in cloth while
saying, " I bind you in the name of Love(or God) so you can do no harm to yourself or others, with no repercussions on myself."
You can add your own little twist to it, but make sure you have the basics. Caging is where you visualize the person on the
bottom piece of a bird cage and as you bring down the cage of white positive energy down you say, " I cage you in the name
of Love(or God) so you can do no harm to yourself or others, with no repercussions upon myself." Always make sure unconditional
love can only get in and out. Also tie a gold ribbon around the bird cage. You always can ask God(or Love or Goddess) to strengthen
your Shield, Bind and Cage.
We must face up to our particular way of controlling others. Remember, the Fourth Insight reveals that humans have always
felt short of energy and have sought to control each other to acquire the energy that flows between people. The Fifth then
shows us that an alternative source exists, but we can't really stay connected with this source until we come to grips with
the particular method that, we, as individuals, use in our controlling, and stop doing it-- because whenever we fall back
into this habit, we get disconnected from the source.
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Getting rid of this habit isn't easy because it's always unconscious at first. The key to letting it go is to bring it fully
into consciousness, and we do that by seeing that our particular style of controlling others is one we learned in childhood
to get attention, to get the energy moving our way, and we're stuck there. This style is something we repeat over and over
again... our unconscious control drama.
I call it a drama because it is one familiar scene, like a scene in a movie, for which we write the script as youths. Then
we repeat this scene over and over in our daily lives without being aware of it. All we know is that the same kind of events
happen to us repeatedly. The problem is if we are repeating one particular scene over and over, then the other scenes of our
real life movie, the high adventure marked by coincidences, can't go forward. We stop the movie when we repeat this one drama
in order to manipulate for energy.
"A perfect example of how a control drama interferes [is] how you were so aloof you didn't allow an important coincidence
to take place. Everyone plays a drama of [some] kind. At least now you know how yours works.
Your way of controlling people and situations... in order to get energy coming your way, is to create this drama in your mind
during which you withdraw and look mysterious and secretive. You tell yourself that you're being cautious but what you're
really doing is hoping someone will be pulled into this drama and will try to figure out what's going on with you. When someone
does, you remain vague, forcing them to struggle and dig and try to discern your true feelings.
The first step in the process of getting clear, for (p127) each of us, is to bring our particular control drama into full
consciousness. Nothing can proceed until we really look at ourselves and discover what we are doing to manipulate for energy.
The next step [is that] each of us must go back into our past, back into our early family life, and see how this habit was
formed. Seeing its inception keeps our way of controlling in consciousness. Remember, most of our family members were operating
in a drama themselves, trying to pull energy out of us as children. This is why we had to form a control drama in the first
place. We had to have a strategy to win energy back. It is always in relation to our family members that we develop our particular
dramas. However, once we recognize the energy dynamics in our families, we can go past these control strategies and see what
was really happening.
Each person must reinterpret his family experience from an evolutionary point of view, from a spiritual point of view, and
discover who he really is. Once we do that, our control drama falls away and our real lives take off.
[You] begin... by first understanding how your drama was formed.
Tell me about your father.
Well, he was always critical. I could never do anything right.
How did he criticize you?
He asked questions, then found something wrong with the answers.
And what happened to your energy?
I guess I felt drained so I tried to keep from telling him anything.
You mean you got vague and distant, trying to say things in a way that would get his attention but not reveal enough to give
him something to criticize. He was an interrogator and you dodged around him with your aloofness.
An interrogator is another kind of drama. People who use this means of gaining energy set up a drama of asking questions and
probing into another person's world with the specific purpose of finding something wrong. Once they do, then they criticize
this aspect of the other's life. If this strategy succeeds then the person being criticized is pulled into the drama. They
suddenly find themselves becoming self-conscious around the interrogator and paying attention to what the interrogator is
doing and thinking about, so as to not do something wrong that the interrogator would notice. The psychic deference gives
the interrogator the energy he desires.
Think about the times you have been around someone like this. When you get caught up in this drama, don't you tend to act
a certain way so that the person won't criticize you? He pulls you off your own path and drains your energy because you judge
yourself by what he might be thinking.
Let me explain the classifications spoken of in the Manuscript.... Everyone manipulates for energy either aggressively, directly
forcing people to pay attention to them, or passively, playing on people's sympathy or curiosity to gain attention. For instance,
if someone threatens you, either verbally or physically, then you are forced, for fear of something bad happening to you,
to pay attention to him and so to give him energy. The person threatening you would be pulling you into the most aggressive
kind of drama, what the Sixth Insight calls the intimidator.
If, on the other hand, someone tells you all the horrible things that are (p129) already happening to them, implying perhaps
that you are responsible, and that, if you refuse to help, these horrible things are going to continue, then this person is
seeking to control at the most passive level, with what the Manuscript calls a poor me drama. Think about this for a moment.
Haven't you ever been around someone who makes you feel guilty when you're in their presence, even though you know there is
no reason to feel this way?
It's because you have entered the drama world of a poor me. Everything they say and do puts you in a place where you have
to defend against the idea that you're not doing enough for this person. That's why you feel guilty just being around them.
Anyone's drama can be examined... according to where it falls on this spectrum from aggressive to passive. If a person is
subtle in their aggression, finding fault and slowly undermining your world in order to get your energy, then, as we say in
your father, this person would be an interrogator. Less passive than the poor me would be your aloofness drama. So the order
of dramas goes this way: intimidator, interrogator, aloof, and poor me.
Some people use more than one in different circumstances, but most of us have one dominant control drama that we tend to repeat,
depending on which one worked well on the members of our early family.
If you are a child and someone is draining your energy by threatening you with bodily harm then being aloof doesn't work.
You can't get them to give you energy by playing coy. They don't give a damn what's going on inside you. They're coming on
too strong. So you're forced to become more passive and to try the poor me approach, appealing to the mercy of this person,
guilt tripping them about the harm they are doing.
A person goes to whatever extreme necessary to get attention energy in their family. And after that, this strategy becomes
their dominant way of controlling to get energy from everyone, the drama they constantly repeat.
What would you do if you were a child and your family members were either not there or ignored you because they were preoccupied
with their careers or something? Playing aloof would not get their attention; they wouldn't notice. Wouldn't you have to resort
to probing and prying and finally finding something wrong in these aloof people in order to force attention and energy? This
is what an interrogator does.
Aloof people create interrogators [and] interrogators make people aloof. And intimidators create the poor me approach, or
if this fails, another intimidator.
That's how control dramas perpetuate themselves. But remember, there is a tendency to see these dramas in others but to think
that we ourselves are free from such devices. Each of us must transcend this illusion before we can go on. Almost all of us
tend to be stuck, at least some of the time, in a drama and we have to step back and look at ourselves long enough to discover
what it is.
Once we see our drama, what happens next [is] we are truly free to become more than the unconscious act we play. As I said
before, we can find a higher meaning for our lives, a spiritual reason we were born to our particular families. We can begin
to get clear about who we really are.
There's only one way. Each of us has to go back to our family experience, that childhood time and place, and review what happened.
Once we become conscious of our control drama, then we can focus on the higher truth of our family, the silver lining... that
lies beyond the energy conflict. Once we find this truth, it can energize our lives, for this truth tells us who we are, the
path we are on, what we are doing.
The process of finding your true spiritual identity involves looking at your whole life as one long story, trying to find
a higher meaning. Begin by asking yourself this question: Why was I born to this particular family? What might have been the
purpose for that?
Didn't they both want your allegiance? Wasn't that why they were interrogating you, to make sure you weren't siding with the
values of the other? Didn't they both want you to think their way was the best?
You're looking for the meaning her life has for you, the reason you were born to her, what you were there to learn. Every
human being, whether they are conscious of it or not illustrates with their lives how he or she thinks a human being is supposed
to live. You must try to discover what she taught you and at the same time what about her life could have been done better.
What you would have changed about your mother is part of what you yourself are working on. [And} (p138) how you would improve
on your father's life is the other part.
We are not merely the physical creation of our parents; we are also the spiritual creation. You were born to these two people
and their lives had an irrevocable effect on who you are. To discover your real self, you must admit that the real you began
in a position between their truths. That's why you were born there: to take a higher perspective on what they stood for. Your
path is about discovering a truth that is a higher synthesis of what these two people believed.
How does one live a life that is both? From your mother you received the knowledge that life is about spirituality. From your
father you learned that life is about self-enhancement, (p139) fun, adventure. For you, spirituality is the question. Your
whole life will be about finding one that is self-enhancing. This is the problem your parents were unable to reconcile, the
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You can go right back into your old drama, or you can wake up tomorrow and hold on to this new idea of who you are. If you
do then you can take the next step in the process, which is to look closely at all the other things that have happened to
you since birth. If you view your life as one story, from birth to right now, you'll be able to see how you have been working
on this question all along. You'll be able to see how you came to be here in and what you should do next.
The Sixth Insight is my special insight. My truth is helping others grasp this insight. And I'm effective because I've gone
through the process myself. I was an interrogator.
My father was a poor me and my mother was aloof. They completely ignored me. The only way I could get any attention energy
was to pry into what they were doing and then point out something wrong with it.
My father stood for accomplishment. He was very goal oriented. He planned his time to the minute and judged himself according
to how much he got done. My mother was very intuitive and mystical. She believed that each of us received spiritual guidance
and that life was about following this direction.
Because of my father I was sensitized to the idea that life was about accomplishment: having something important to do and
getting it done. But at the same time my mother was there to tell me life was about inner direction, an intuitive guidance
of some sort. I realized that my life was a synthesis of both viewpoints. I was trying to discover how we are guided inwardly
toward the mission only we can do, knowing it is of supreme importance to pursue this mission if we are to feel happy and
fulfilled.
And you can see why I was excited about the Sixth Insight. As soon as I read it I knew that my work was to help people get
clear so that they could develop this sense of purpose.
Wil's drama was to be aloof, like yours. Also, as in your case, each of his parents was an interrogator and each had a strong
philosophy they wanted Wil to adopt. Wil's father was a German novelist who argued that the ultimate destiny of the human
race was to perfect itself. His father never advocated anything but the purest of humanitarian principles, but the Nazis used
his basic idea of perfection to help legitimatize their murderous liquidation of inferior races.
The corruption of his theme destroyed the old man and led him to (p142) move to South America with his wife and Wil. His wife
was a Peruvian who grew up in America and was educated there. She was a writer too, but she was basically Eastern in her philosophical
beliefs. She held that life was about reaching an inner enlightenment, a high consciousness marked by peace of mind and detachment
from the things of the world. According to her, life was not about perfection; it was about letting go of the need to perfect
anything, to go anywhere.
His father championed the Western idea of working for progress and perfection and his mother held the Eastern belief that
life was only about reaching inner peace, nothing else.
These two people had prepared Wil to work on integrating the main philosophical differences between Eastern and Western culture,
although he didn't know it at first. He first became an engineer dedicated to progress and then a simple guide who sought
peace by bringing people to the beautiful, inwardly moving places in this country.
But searching out the Manuscript awakened all this in him. The insights spoke directly to his main question. They reveal that
the thought of both East and West can indeed be integrated into a higher truth. They show us that the West is correct in maintaining
that life is about progress, about evolving toward something higher. Yet the East is also correct in emphasizing that we must
let go of control with the ego. We can't progress by using logic alone. We have to attain a fuller consciousness, an inner
connection with God because only then can our evolution toward something better be guided by a higher part of ourselves.
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